The number of people forced to leave their homes has grown year after year over the past decade. Is at the highest level since it began to be recorded. Despite some signs of progress, the speed and scale of forced displacement are beyond solutions for refugees. Families cross the border in hopes of finding a safe place for their children to grow. Sometimes safe, but rarely inclusive.
"There are far more reasons that push children to leave their homes and fewer pull factors that lure them to Europe. But for those who do aim to come to Europe, the allure is the chance to further their education, find respect for their rights and get ahead in life. Once they reach Europe, their expectations are sadly shattered."
– Afshan Khan, Regional Director for UNICEF in Europe and Central Asia.
From time to time, shocking news comes out about this reality, however, they are quickly forgotten. This is the everyday life of thousands of children, who don’t have the privilege of just forgetting.
Children on the move risk everything for a better life, for a glimpse of a future. Their childhood gets lost in the sea they cross and the roads they walk. They are vulnerable to abuse and other forms of violence during and after their journeys. It is estimated that more than one child dies every day along the Central Mediterranean route from North Africa to Italy.
But do the obstacles imposed on these children start and end on the journey to Europe? The answer is no. They dream of a country where they can start a new life. But since the moment they cross the border, these children are labeled “refugees”. This simple word can exclude someone from society.
"We're now refugees. People don't like us. No one is loyal, everyone lies. I was a kid before. I am older now. I know more."
– Rawan, aged 12, flee from Aleppo in Syria
Regarding education, although all children have a fundamental right to basic education, stereotypes and judgment may lead to discrimination, prejudice, and bullying. Refugee and migrant children are seen as different, and schools are not prepared enough to promote multiculturalism and openness to diversity.
Refugee children feel excluded from the host community. Physical appearance, religious, linguistic, and cultural differences are some of the factors that contribute to feeding the preconceived ideas that lead to discrimination.
The mental health state of these children is often ignored. They develop trauma and stress related to specific events while in their country of origin or during displacement. They need psychological support and a safe environment to recover from what they have witnessed, however, this is rarely available to them.
What has to change? Countless things. Sometimes, the immensity of what is yet to be changed for a more equal world for refugees, makes us think that it is impossible or that it is not worth it. But it's worth it. Recognizing that the problem exists is the first step. Demand more responses from governments in this regard. Try to be informed by listening to their voices. And day after day, try to fight the stereotypes that live inside each one of us.
On the 20th of November, let’s celebrate World Children’s Day by thinking about all those that don’t feel included and how to change this reality.